tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9208474862801704325.post1827107026547553958..comments2013-09-08T19:04:33.860+01:00Comments on Manic Defense against Chronic Dysphoria: Psychosis part three....Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9208474862801704325.post-44421229446375622992012-10-05T23:55:15.878+01:002012-10-05T23:55:15.878+01:00I can't find the words to help you, I don'...I can't find the words to help you, I don't know what to say, I wish I could help, I usually joke and lark about like an arse to help my friend's through their traumas (tho they have different problems), If I had a 'beam me up scotty' type thing I would be there and try to get you through it moment by moment. Not that I am in any way an expert, but silly, stupid. farty, snorty type jokes and a certain amount of black humour gets us through the shite. (Don't forget the hobbitlike menopausal midget wearing a tatty dressing gown dancin like a video ho if it helps). When my friend was in the divorce courts with The Bastard and I wasn't allowed in I told her to imagine me in the corner looking like the little dwarf in 'The Singing Ringing Tree' (remember that hideous show in the 60s?/70s?) giving him the finger when things got tough.<br />PS I must remember to tell you about my 50th birthday - surreal but we laughed ourselves into bellyaches (7 of us, 5 with shit lives!)<br />Do you have someone to laugh with?<br />Sympathy and earnest careworkers are all well and good but sometimes a giggle/snorty/chortle/snicker/eyewiping breathless laugh until you fart time is good for the soul, the digestion and the stomach muscles too.<br />Love <br />Susan x<br />I hope I don't sound fascetious (did I spell that right? no - bugger) xsusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12762599123725286723noreply@blogger.com